TUXEDOby Mon Amie
Black double-breasted peak-lapel tuxedo jacket on a mannequin with black bow tie and white shirt

Dress code

Reading the invitation, dressing the part

Evening dress codes, from the strictest to the most relaxed, and every part of a tuxedo that makes it correct.

The ladder

Five evening dress codes

  1. 01

    White Tie

    The most formal: tailcoat, white piqué waistcoat, white bow tie, wing-collar shirt. Rare — state banquets and royal balls.

  2. 02

    Black Tie

    Black or midnight-blue tuxedo, white dress shirt, black bow tie, cummerbund or waistcoat, black polished shoes. The standard for evening receptions, galas and evening weddings.

  3. 03

    Black Tie Optional

    A tuxedo is encouraged; a dark suit (black, navy, charcoal) with a plain tie is acceptable.

  4. 04

    Creative Black Tie

    Tuxedo structure with room for personality: velvet, jacquard, wine colours, patterned bow ties. Suits the stage, art events and modern weddings.

  5. 05

    Cocktail

    A sharp dark suit, with or without a tie. A tuxedo may be overdressed here.

Read: what Black Tie really means

Anatomy

Nine parts of a correct tuxedo

  1. 01

    Silk-faced lapels

    Shawl, peak or notch lapels faced in glossy satin or matte ribbed grosgrain — the defining mark of a tuxedo.

  2. 02

    Covered buttons

    Buttons covered in the lapel facing, usually a single button on single-breasted jackets. Double-breasted is the classic formal variation.

  3. 03

    Jetted pockets

    Hip pockets are jetted without flaps to keep the front clean; the breast pocket holds a white pocket square.

  4. 04

    Braided trousers

    Trousers in the jacket cloth with a satin or grosgrain braid down each leg, no turn-ups, a slightly higher rise and side adjusters or braces instead of a belt.

  5. 05

    Cummerbund or waistcoat

    Covers the waistband between jacket and shirt: a cummerbund with pleats facing up, or a low-cut evening waistcoat. One or the other, never both.

  6. 06

    Dress shirt

    White shirt with a pleated or piqué bib, turndown or wing collar, French cuffs and shirt studs in place of buttons.

  7. 07

    Self-tie bow tie

    A black bow tie in satin or grosgrain matching the lapel facing. A self-tied bow always looks more natural than a pre-tied one.

  8. 08

    Shoes & socks

    Black patent or highly polished oxfords, or opera pumps for the most formal evenings. Fine black socks long enough to show no skin when seated.

  9. 09

    Accessories

    A white linen or silk pocket square, matching cufflinks and studs, a slim dress watch on leather. Less but better — a tuxedo needs little.

Common mistakes

What to avoid

  • A long necktie instead of a bow tie at a true black-tie event.
  • A belt with a cummerbund — tuxedo trousers use side adjusters or braces.
  • A cummerbund and a waistcoat together.
  • Flap pockets, contrasting stitching or a notch lapel in a different cloth from the facing.
  • Brown shoes, or socks that show skin when you sit.
  • A busy pocket square — white linen or silk is correct.
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